Keeping a man interested in you isn't rocket science. A host of blockbuster movies have been made on this very subject. While a lot of them play on the 'treat them mean, keep them keen' theory, in reality it's a lot simpler.
Keeping a man at arms length is the easiest way of keeping them interested. Just ensure that you're not so far out of their reach that they'll just give up and walk away. Resist him yes but still be available. He'll find this intoxicating and his interest won't wane.
The problem a lot of women make is to give themselves completely to their man. Studies show that couple who sleep together early in their relationship, are more likely to break up. This is simply because they haven't built a rapport outside the bedroom first. The attraction should build gradually then, when you finally get between the sheets, fireworks will go off and he'll be hooked.
Don't give in to a man because you think he'll like you more. Nothing could be further from the truth. You've given him everything on a plate and he has nothing else to stick around for. It's his mind that keeps him interested in you, not his body.
To get inside his mind, make him see the values that you possess and his interest in you will multiply. Let him see that you are special and unique. Take things at your pace. If he tries something, pull back, smile and whisper that you're not ready YET. Place a big emphasis on the yet. This will make him constantly think of the pleasures that are to come.
You want to ignite the hunter in him, be responsive yet elusive. Practice these behaviours and he will never lose interest in you.
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