Friday, November 13, 2009

Get a Commitment - Everything it Takes to Make Him Yours

Do you want to get a commitment, but worry that you will leave him feeling pressured? Are you needing the relationship to move forward, but just aren't sure how to make that happen? Do you want to have him be yours, but just aren't sure how? There are lots of women out there who long for a relationship that includes a man who is committed. However, it isn't always easy to know how to get that commitment without scaring him away. After all you need to make sure that you don't pressure him, but that you still get what you want. Here are the things you need to do to make him yours and to get a commitment without pressuring him into it.

Be confident.
While often easier said then done, confidence is important in gaining a healthy and meaningful relationship. You need to be confident to attract a man in the right way and to get him wanting you for the rest of your life. To build confidence spend time focusing on you. Write down all your positive attributes and meditate on them. Spend some time identifying new things that you like about yourself. Plus you shouldn't be afraid to get some self help books if you need a little added help in the confidence realm.

Meet his needs.
Often figuring out what it is a man needs compared to what we think he needs isn't easy. But you need to make sure you are meeting his needs. This means supporting him in all that he does, being there when he needs you, and being an upbeat and positive person. Also make sure that you have fun when you spend time with him.

Remember that it isn't all about looks.
You are a great person and looks are only a small portion of who you are. You need to remember that this is true in what he needs in a relationship. There are lots of things that he needs from a relationship and it goes far beyond looks.

Keep it interesting.
You also want to make sure that it doesn't get boring too fast and way too quickly. To keep it interesting make sure you try new things, go new places, and learn to do new things. At the same time leave some of you left to get to know. This will give him something to pursue and will keep him interested longer.

By following these four things you will get his interest and get a commitment. It will require that you be confident and build it up if need be. You should also work at meeting his needs while remembering that they go far beyond looks. Finally keep it interesting. Be patient and it won't be long and he will be yours.

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