How to Know If He's Not the One For You

Are you in a relationship that you feel within you that some things are just not right? Are you confused and need a second opinion to know if he's a marriage material or not? If you answered yes to the questions above then this page is for you as a guide to knowing if he's not the one for you. Listed below are guides to know that he's not the one for you!

1. He has No job: If he's jobless and making no effort to get a good job but he's very comfortable relying on you or his parents for money at all times to keep up with bills and all other stuff, then you should know that he's lazy and not ready to grow up. If he's incapable of supporting himself financially, then certainly he'll not be able to care for someone else.

2. He's a Cheat: If he's the covetous type of man that is never satisfied with one woman; then let go! A cheat is no good at all because he'll continue to play with your emotions and might eventually leave you for someone else. Never waste your time with a cheat because cheating sometimes is like an addiction. It's very had to stop. Once you catch him more than once, LEAVE HIM FOR GOOD! If he values you, he would not gamble with you by cheating on you.

3. Fears Commitment: It is always advisable that you read well between the lines to know the reason why you are starting a relationship. Study him well enough before going head-on into the relationship. Know if he's looking for a serious relationship or a fling. Never be captured by the moment of sweet words because it is better you look before you leap! Imagine being in a committed relationship with someone for more than a year and he's still scared of commitment? He doesn't want you to meet his family, he wants to continue the hide and seek game with you, and he tells you the word marriage scare him or that he doesn't want to discuss marriage or pulls up a fight anytime he hears anything close to commitment. It is an indication that he's not serious with you.

4. Disrespectful: Respect is very essential in any relationship. The feeling that your guy respects you boosts your self worth, it makes you happy and you feel loved. Respect is a good indication that he loves you, honours you, and is concerned about how you feel. It makes the relationship lasts forever. But if he disrespects you by being abusive by words or by being physically abusive and later apologizes but repeats the same thing later, then I'll advise that you are playing with fire!!! He's not the one for you. He doesn't care for you at all; he'll cause you physical and emotional stress. I know you don't want to be with such type of person.

5. Drinks too much: If he's the type that drinks excessively. He drinks to stupor nearly every time and he's never in control whenever he sees beer or any form of alcoholic drink but allow it to take full control of him to the extent that you're very unsettled whenever you're with him and there are alcoholic drinks available.

6. He has a bad Character: Character could either make or break a person. If in his dealings or relationship with people he's very selfish and heartless, LET HIM GO! There is a proverb and that states and I quote 'show me your friend and I'll know the type of person you are". If people continue to see you with him, they'll think you are like him and remember that evil communication corrupt good manners. If he has a bad character to people, he'll surely not be good to you as well.

7. Your Instinct: More than anything, do not contend with your instinct. If you are seeing these red flags as mentioned above and your instinct is also telling you to let go of him, then LET GO! A bad relationship is no worth your time. You don't want to waste your time with someone who is not that into you. DO NOT be clouded by 'love'. Listen and obey your instinct. If your instinct tells you some things are just not right, then it simply means he's not the one for you.

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