Are you one of thousands of women who is asking whether or not the man you are seeing is looking for more? Are you ready to have a relationship, but aren't sure the man in your life is heading in that direction? Are you dying to know if he is going the same direction you are or if you should start looking for a new someone? If you can answer yes or even maybe to any of these questions it is time to start evaluating how things are going with this man. You don't need to waste time if you want a relationship and he doesn't. Use these three signs to show whether or not he wants a relationship and whether or not he is looking for more.
He's the one asking you out.
If you are always the one doing the asking or if you somehow end up going out with no one asking then it is convenience that has you together. This means that you aren't really high on his priority list and it isn't likely that he is looking for something serious and long term with you. On the other hand, if he asks you out then he is showing you that he is interested in what you bring to the table and he desires to spend more time with you. This is definitely a sign he is looking for more.
He seeks you out.
If he seeks you out to spend time with you, calls you, emails you, or texts you then he thinks of you more often then he does a casual friend. This is a good thing and it is likely that he is moving toward a relationship with you. On the other hand if he doesn't care if you spend time together, doesn't seek you out, doesn't call, email, or text then what you have with him isn't moving in the direction of a relationship.
He sees you as more than a booty call.
A lot of men love the idea of having friends with benefits. They often see themselves having these relationships even when the women haven't caught on or haven't been informed. If your time spent together often is based on sex or leads to sex then chances are pretty good you are just a booty call. This is also true if he calls you up just for sex or if he wouldn't spend time with you if you didn't give him sex. This is the easiest way to figure out a guy's intentions. If you are more than a booty call then it is likely that he wants a relationship. If you are just a booty call and you want a relationship then it is time to move on.
These three signs will show whether or not he wants a relationship and if he is looking for more. On the other hand, it will also give you a good idea of whether or not you should be keeping him around. Make sure you are honest in your evaluation and that you follow your instincts about what you should do with the relationship.
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