There are plenty of stories of men who can't commit. If you are in love with a guy like this, chances are you might be waiting 5-7 years before he can pop the question. Why does he want to wait so long? All you want is the piece of mind, knowing he will be with you for the rest of your life. This is not too much to ask is it?
I am going to teach you why men can't commit and how to make them.
Some guys are afraid because they don't want to be hurt. Other men are afraid that they will lose all their freedom. All of this comes, most likely, from their experience with marriage. Think about how your man has been raised. Was he raised in a happy home or were his parents fighting constantly. Was anyone in the relationship suffering and wanted to get out? These questions can help you determine why he's so scared.
Your first step is to seriously talk with him and see his side. Don't be afraid to open a dialogue. If he is so afraid that he breaks up with you, that man was not a good choice for a husband. If you can't communicate, your relationship will never last. Hopefully, he will explain to you some of his fears. Some men are just afraid of paying for a ring and a ceremony. If you really just want to be married, suggest going through a courthouse or picking a cheap ring at the jeweler.
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