It is sad but true: women often don't have a clue how to attract a man! We get bombarded by images from the media that tell us a lot of things about men, which may or may not be true.
By just watching TV, we could conclude that the only way to attract men is to get boob jobs, wear scan'ty clothes, and stay 24 years old forever! Maybe that works to get a guy for a night or a week, but for an actual relationship where the guy is attracted to you and not just your legs, you should be using an entirely different strategy.
First, take care of your appearance. You don't need to look like a supermodel, but you do need to look like you care enough about yourself to take care of yourself. Brush and take care of your hair instead of letting it get all ragged at the ends or just throwing it into a ponytail every day.
Swipe on a little bit of makeup, and wear clothes that flatter you as well as are comfortable. You don't have to wear skimpy clothes that are uncomfortable and risky, but you should stay away from clothes that make you look dumpy or sloppy. It is possible to find comfortable clothes that express your personal style and also flatter your best features. The real secret to attract a man actually has nothing to do with men at all: it has do to with you and your level of self-confidence and your attitude.
Men like women who obviously like themselves and like those around them. So if you have negative thoughts about yourself, change them! Being self-deprecating is a bad habit and you need to break it. If you don't like yourself very much, you're not giving men a very compelling reason to like you, either. Also try to be a positive person about others and life in general. Try to be an optimist and not to gossip or speak badly of others. While it may be looks that will initially attract men, it will be a nice girl with a pleasant personality that will keep them around.
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